Like a Friend

You are hung safely in the past now,
fixed in the frame of the photograph
from that day in the mountains when I was afraid
but you went right in, trusting your body
to the body of the lake, its coldness
that held you even as the bottom dropped
away. I’d like to remember you
floating in the green world
of the water, the heavens broken open
like a vault above us, and summer
pouring through.

The Sound When the Held Note Ceases

Tonight I contemplate, thirty years late,
his dark head cradled in my lap,
teen-aged boy from band snuck back with me
to our grade school playground,
middle of a bitter night,
and him telling me he’d been adopted
twice, and me considering the mother
who gave him up, one who died
when he was two, and finally one who lasted,
her voice cool when I’d called
for him that afternoon.

Maybe Time

Every couple of years, I strip down to my underthings and let my dermatologist and her two assistants check my entire body for skin cancer. I admit I feel weird and a little chilly, being the only nearly naked person in the room, but I have become basically comfortable in my body and benign toward it. I even have the illusion, before the doctor arrives to examine me, that I am still, well, kind of hot.

The Teddy Roosevelt Writing Process Blog

Here I am, weeks late, working on my Writing Process Blog Tour post. The path this far was circuitous. It was weird and involved delays caused by vomiting, Spring Break, sinus problems, and taxation. I cooked a homemade dinner for twenty-seven people. I flew to Bozeman, Montana where I visited my son and watched overweight cowboys check their text messages and drink beer. I fed nine mice to three snakes and wrote a love poem about a spider I used to keep as a pet.

LIKE A RIVER, LIKE A FLOOD

ON JOSHUA MENSCH’S BECAUSE: A LYRIC MEMOIR

New York, NY: W.W. Norton & Company, 2018.
128 pages. $22.95. ISBN 978-0-393-63522-5.

I still remember the first time I read Because, Joshua Mensch’s lyric memoir about childhood sexual abuse. It was a summer morning, children were playing quietly somewhere in my house, and I was sitting at the kitchen counter. Joshua and I knew each other a little then and have since become friends.